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OUR WORK TOGETHER
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My Philosophy
We exist in relationship. I do not believe in isolated healing, as much as it has been popularized in the self-help movement.
Successful, integrated humans have always talked, shared, laughed together, cried together, raged together, healed together.
The lack of the genuine, unflinching mirror of an emotionally intimate connection with another human being, does damage far beyond any that can be seen by the naked eye.
STOP SCROLLING looking for connection, it's not there.
STOP SWIPING looking for loving acceptance, it's not there.
Where this connection CAN be found is in the loving holding exemplified in the progressive growth of emotional intimacy that naturally occurs in the therapeutic relationship.
I'm not afraid of your feelings, or your past.
They are not a barrier to our shared connection, and to your healing.

Who do I work with?
At this stage of my career, I work primarily with highly motivated people who are ready and willing to experience lasting change, and to do what it takes to get there.
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That being said, some of the greatest joy I have found in my professional work (probably in part because it relates to some of my own struggles at different times in my life) includes :
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Working with men on finding their place in today's world
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Working with families that are experiencing systemic issues within their family unit
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Working with people around sex and in particular blockages to their fullest expression of their authentic sexual self
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Working with people on the 'big' questions; God, spiritual connection, death, life purpose.
California, USA
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